{"id":5398,"date":"2025-09-24T15:19:09","date_gmt":"2025-09-24T15:19:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/?p=5398"},"modified":"2025-09-24T15:19:11","modified_gmt":"2025-09-24T15:19:11","slug":"supporting-a-loved-one-with-a-stoma-during-chemotherapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/blog\/supporting-a-loved-one-with-a-stoma-during-chemotherapy\/","title":{"rendered":"Supporting a loved one with a stoma during chemotherapy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-947\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2.jpg\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2000px) 100vw, 2000px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-70 has-background-dim\" style=\"background-color:#6e6760\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6abd64e8935cc2da267e6177b82634d3 text-center lg:text-center\">Supporting a loved one with a stoma during chemotherapy<\/h1>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"spacer\n    h-8    lg:h-24\"\n>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-2xl lg:text-2xl wp-block-paragraph\">You are so important to support a loved one through their cancer journey. Litte small touches can make huge differences, but there\u2019s a lot for you to understand as well. Here are some things to consider:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Educate yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">If you don\u2019t already know, learn what a stoma is and how it impacts daily life. Why not check out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/stoma-support-advice\/chemotherapy\/support-and-advice\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"5388\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-purple-600-color\"><strong>these articles<\/strong><\/mark><\/a> to understand the background and some challenges?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Encourage communication<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">Hearing about a cancer diagnosis can be difficult for you too but try and listen actively to your loved one, giving them space to open up in their own time and share their thoughts, expressing their feelings and concerns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Allow privacy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">That being said, respect your loved one\u2019s privacy. They may not be ready to talk or share details about their stoma, give time and space and allow them discretion for changes so they do not feel self-conscious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Offer help<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">Be direct with your offers. Instead of asking how you can help, be specific:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list is-style-purple-checkmark\">\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Can I cook you meals?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Do you need anything from the supermarket?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Where is your lawn mower and let me cut the grass?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Can I take you to your next appointment?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">Think of small things that might help \u2013 a direct offer can be easier to accept than trying to think of an exact task when asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Be flexible<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">Stoma routines can be unpredictable \u2013 especially during chemotherapy plus your loved one is going though a lot of change. Understand things can change last minute and try and be flexible and accommodating as needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Embrace optimism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl wp-block-paragraph\">This last one we say knowing that each person\u2019s journey will be different so being full on optimism isn\u2019t going to be the right tone for every conversation. You can however remain positive and caring, actively listening and encouraging. We have called this series Thriving Beyond Today \u2013 going through a cancer diagnosis, stoma creation and subsequent chemotherapy is a lot for anyone to deal with, it is life changing \u2013 but it is not life limiting, in fact read through the rest of this series to see how others have thrived with their stoma.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"spacer\n    h-8    lg:h-8\"\n>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div>\n    <div class=\"stories-carousel\">\n        <div class=\"glide__track\" data-glide-el=\"track\">\n            <ul class=\"glide__slides\">\n                                    <li class=\"glide__slide story-slide\">\n                        <a class=\"group\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/blog\/can-you-swim-with-a-stoma-by-summer\/\">\n                            <picture class=\"block z-0\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\"\n                                    loading=\"lazy\"\n                                    class=\"aspect-square object-cover\"\n                                    src=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653.jpeg\"\n                                    srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653-113x150.jpeg 113w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/06\/IMG_4653.jpeg 1536w\"\n                                    alt=\"\"\n                                \/>\n                            <\/picture>\n                            <span class=\"block font-bold text-lg\">Can you 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 <\/picture>\n                            <span class=\"block font-bold text-lg\">Running a marathon with a stoma | by Kevin<\/span>\n                            <span class=\"reading-time block\">5 minutes<\/span>\n                            <span class=\"group-hover:underline read-more block relative z-20\">Read more<\/span>\n                        <\/a>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li class=\"glide__slide story-slide\">\n                        <a class=\"group\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/blog\/long-haul-flights-with-a-stoma-by-summer\/\">\n                            <picture class=\"block z-0\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\"\n                                    loading=\"lazy\"\n                                    class=\"aspect-square object-cover\"\n                                    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https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_0535-scaled-e1779109087825-100x100.jpeg 100w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_0535-scaled-e1779109087825.jpeg 1920w\"\n                                    alt=\"\"\n                                \/>\n                            <\/picture>\n                            <span class=\"block font-bold text-lg\">Long haul flights with a stoma | by Summer<\/span>\n                            <span class=\"reading-time block\">5 minutes<\/span>\n                            <span class=\"group-hover:underline read-more block relative z-20\">Read more<\/span>\n                        <\/a>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li class=\"glide__slide story-slide\">\n                        <a class=\"group\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/blog\/how-my-stoma-routine-has-changed-over-time-by-rachel\/\">\n                            <picture class=\"block z-0\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\"\n                                    loading=\"lazy\"\n                                    class=\"aspect-square object-cover\"\n                                    src=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_9630-scaled-e1778063616974.jpeg\"\n                                    srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_9630-scaled-e1778063616974-255x300.jpeg 255w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_9630-scaled-e1778063616974-870x1024.jpeg 870w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_9630-scaled-e1778063616974-127x150.jpeg 127w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_9630-scaled-e1778063616974-768x904.jpeg 768w, 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                    <span class=\"group-hover:underline read-more block relative z-20\">Read more<\/span>\n                        <\/a>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li class=\"glide__slide story-slide\">\n                        <a class=\"group\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/blog\/travelling-sri-lanka-with-a-stoma-by-summer\/\">\n                            <picture class=\"block z-0\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\"\n                                    loading=\"lazy\"\n                                    class=\"aspect-square object-cover\"\n                                    src=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_2234-scaled-e1778061045454.jpeg\"\n                                    srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/GB\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/20\/2026\/05\/IMG_2234-scaled-e1778061045454-300x233.jpeg 300w, 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