{"id":4529,"date":"2025-11-21T15:48:27","date_gmt":"2025-11-21T15:48:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/blog\/finding-joy-in-the-little-things-with-a-stoma-by-louise\/"},"modified":"2025-11-21T15:49:26","modified_gmt":"2025-11-21T15:49:26","slug":"finding-joy-in-the-little-things-with-a-stoma-by-louise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/blog\/finding-joy-in-the-little-things-with-a-stoma-by-louise\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding joy in the little things with a stoma | by Louise"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-947\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2.jpg\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/19\/2025\/03\/Meet-our-ambassadors-page-scaled-2-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2000px) 100vw, 2000px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-70 has-background-dim\" style=\"background-color:#6e6760\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a496aa3c754112b151011f6c800ad26f text-center lg:text-center\">Finding joy in the little things with a stoma | by Louise<\/h1>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"spacer\n    h-8    lg:h-24\"\n>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The last 16 years healthwise for me have been a little traumatic to say the least!<\/h4>\n\n\n<div class=\"spacer\n    h-4    lg:h-12\"\n>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Surgery after surgery, not to mention the numerous hospital admissions and then to add medical PTSD which I am now having treated with counselling and EMDR. I will admit that the last two years have been difficult and sometimes hard to find joy\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-purple-400-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8cffd9eae2029a597711acbc9a754a0f\">Being thankful<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">I&#8217;m currently in the process of having extensive counselling to lessen my PTSD flashbacks and night terrors. Having to recall all the trauma has finally connected me to my inner emotions and actually letting it all out. Each session leaves me feeling low, however now that I am halfway through, I feel like I am finally getting the old Louise back and feeling a lust for life again that was previously lacking.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">I have always found that I prioritise everyone over myself and that the new grounding techniques being used during the therapy means I am finally putting myself first and finding the joy in the little things.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list is-style-purple-checkmark\">\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Ruby, my dog, is my life. She&#8217;s been there for cuddles and love when I am feeling low<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">My work: being back to care has given me stability and previously lacking routine, it also feels amazing to be giving back all the help and care I received previously<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">My health: I am finally back to 80% and its amazing to be pain free&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">Love: even through the hard times, our relationship has still stayed strong<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">My hobbies: finally back to reading and attending a book group every two weeks, my loom knitting and being creative and I am now enjoying being back out hiking four times a week with my partner in crime, Ruby.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">My counselling is helping me with being thankful for little things, as my weekly homework involves writing down the good points for each day.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"text-xl lg:text-xl\">As always,<br>Many thanks for reading<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-purple-600-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-634740f2f818d8f7a68206e5da245ea0 text-xl lg:text-xl\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/crohnsfighting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Louise<br>@crohnsfighting<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"spacer\n    h-8    lg:h-8\"\n>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div>\n    <div class=\"stories-carousel\">\n        <div class=\"glide__track\" data-glide-el=\"track\">\n            <ul class=\"glide__slides\">\n                                    <li class=\"glide__slide story-slide\">\n                        <a class=\"group\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eakinostomy.com\/US\/blog\/long-haul-flights-with-a-stoma-by-summer\/\">\n                            <picture class=\"block z-0\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\"\n                                    loading=\"lazy\"\n                                    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